hurrmmm...
Get a snack, settle in... because i'm about to tell you the story of my life... yup! more specifically, why my life......... (fill in the blank) - maybe you're one of the reason why!
You told that it was just a small matter... other people have bigger problems but still can cope it... you said all people have their issues in life - it's difficult to cope with our own issues!
Have you imagine that you were the only hope for a particular damaged person that me want to find... I always think your advice can motivate and change my harmful thoughts... but, instead of getting advises, you blame me...
Everyone made me feel worse... words can crush souls real hard... without people noticing because they don't feel it...
"the important thing - be there (with) to understand, because you are trusted!"
Some people blessed to have a strong support system (family, friends, etc)... but some not so lucky... we all have our own paths... it's not wrong to feel biases because it will always be there, but we can try to understand it first...
You can give your opinion or an advice, but always remember... REMEMBER... be careful with what you say... you can say something hurtful in just few seconds and feel like nothing and you a great, but the wounds can still be there years later to me - don't be so proud!
You said it's okay to be our self and tell the truth, but then you judge me...
You said avoid or get rid of toxic people in my life... but for me, why do I need to avoid or get rid of toxic people, because me myself may be a toxic people to others... to me, just treat people nicely... who knows one day, someone ask for apologize and the forgiveness that give may cost my life in heaven...
to be continue...
